one day someone asked you,
ape beza time kau kapel and time kau single.
means kapel tu bagi changes in negative or positive ways ?
then you fikir balek,
ape dah jadi bile you kapel ?
- for certain people boyfren/gelfren akan jadik their inspiration untuk berjaya. contoh bila someone ni kapel then result exam dia meningkat dengan hebat dan lebatnya because dia nak tunjuk kat partner dia tu bagus, berkebolehan, partner yg ideal him/her and whatsoever. then, after two months diorang clash and result dia menjunam jatuh gedebuk tergolekgolek. * aku teringat lagu 'jack n jail went up the hill to take a pail of water. jack fell down n broke his crown n jail went tumbling after ~' . ommo, sedap suara kau ! awuuu. :P
- lagi satu al-kisah ada kapel yg bagi effect kepada frenship anda. situation dia bila anda kapel dgn EXbf your bestfren or gangmates anda. and you know yg your fren stil sangkot gila2 dgn EX dia tu. but you dgn heartlessly, feelinglessly, without any mercy you kapel dgn EX dia. memang la dia kata tak kesah. dah takdir takleh nak buat pape lah, but in reality, dia cuma cakap di mulut tapi hati rasa lain minda fikir vice versa. frenship you of course surely with no doubt akan jadik dull and riak muka dia terhadap you and cara dia layan you nak taknak, ape you rasa ? sanggup ke buat kawan camtu ? huh. -_________-
- malas dah nak tulis. ngaaaaa -.-
in conclusion, kapel ni sebenarnya depends pada seseorang tu. sama ada dia terima in bad way or good. kalau someone rasa hidup ni tak bermakna tanpa kapel, you should try to be single. it might feels different, but in certain way tak kira la tersurat ke tersirat, still ade ke-masyuk-an menjadi single ni. :)
but kalau anda rasa tak mati pon kalau tak kapel tapi anda kapel, tolonglah setia pada pasangan anda. banyak pronya. tapi sangatsangat bagus jika anda kapel and anda jaga batas-batasnya. kalau your partner hormat you ( for girls laa ) dia tak akan paksa you buat something yg you taknak, e.g holding hands and whatsoever.
a guy penah bagitau aku, girls yg senang2 je bagi boy dia pegang tangan dia, bila2 masa je boleh bagi sentuh part2 lain. and ke-serius-an boy tu patut diragui. kan ?
so, masingmasing ada akal fikiran and please fikir kapel ni baik ke buruk ? aku pon.
